Category: Obituaries

HOUSTON: The Indian community in Houston lost a good friend in the passing of Tulsi Kewalramani on Saturday, May 25^th, 2024.

Tulsi born and brought up in India, attended Sainik Boarding School in Jamnagar. He then went on to do Marine Engineering and sailed around the world on board cargo ships, as an engineer. Family pressures resulted in Tulsi settling down and joining the family business. Tulsi soon married Shalini and the couple moved to Liberia in west Africa and spent 8 years living there till a coup toppled the government and political unrest forced expatriates to leave the country.  The Kewalramani family moved to the USA in 1990, and opened  Maharani Music in 2001. This soon became THE store for all Indian music and movie lovers.

Tulsiji took a very active role in promoting Indian music of all genres  and languages. When Music CDs  took a downturn  he started exploring different avenues and started Armonia Decor + Gifts, in 2023, which became his dream project.

Tulsiji was passionate about music and the arts. He was a long-time supporter of the Indo-American Association and served as it’s Volunteer Outreach Coordinator. He was highly regarded by all and touched many lives with his kindness, generosity, and love.

In 2020 after a trip to India, he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer but still wanted to complete his dream project and open the gift store. In spite of ongoing medical treatments, through sheer will power and determination, Tulsiji managed to set up the beautiful store and saw his dream project come to life.

Unfortunately, he lost his fierce battle with the cancer and passed away on May 25^th. He leaves behind his loving wife Shalini, his daughter Reshma, son-in-law Sanjan, grandsons Dylan and Devin, and sister and brother-in-law Bina and Rattan Hemrajani. He also leaves behind his large circle of friends. The Armonia Décor + Gifts is his legacy.

As we mourn Tulsi’s loss, we also celebrate his life and the lasting impact he had on all of us. Om Shanti.

By Dr. Mark Gilger

Dr. Mark Gilger is with Baylor College of Medicine (BCM) & Texas Children’s Hospital (TCH)

HOUSTON: I am a pediatrician & pediatric gastroenterologist. Dr Gopalakrishna was a friend, colleague and mentor. I first met “Krishna”, as he was always known to us, in 1986, as I began my fellowship training in pediatric gastroenterology at TCH & BCM. Krishna taught me and many in this room how to care for babies & children with GI problems.

He was a gifted teacher & physician. He had remarkable diagnostic prowess. He was one of the smartest people I knew. Perhaps the most remarkable thing about Krishna was his humble, warm personality.

I always felt he never got the respect he deserved, but I knew, his patients and families knew, and my colleagues all knew he was a “go to” physician when you needed help. I think Krishna was a shining example of “living a life worth living”.

It was a privilege to know him &work with him and I will always treasure watching him live “a life worth living”

By Thara Narasimhan

HOUSTON: The Hindus of Greater Houston expresses our heartfelt condolences to the family of Dr. G.S. Gopalakrishna, who passed away on February 7. This is a great loss to our Houston Hindu community. He was the founder member of Hindus of Greater Houston. He took an active part in the Vishwa Hindu Parishad of America. He was an integral part of the Hindu Heritage Youth camp for several years and was the Camp Doctor for the entire week.

Vijay Pallod, in his tribute to Dr. Gopalakrishna on Sunday, February 11 remarked on Dr. Gopalkrishna’s constant
advice to him on many aspects of medical, personal, and guidance for all matters of helping HGH grow. Dr. Gopalakrishna was very thoughtful, candid, and insightful in doing what he believed was best for the community.

Suresh Patel of the Gujarati Samaj Houston, one of the founders of the Hindu Heritage Youth Camp, paid respects to him for his dedication and recalled accompanying him to the National VHPA conference several years ago.

Other Tributes came from Beth Kulkarni, another founder of the Hindus of Greater Houston and former Advisory Council member who shared that “Dr. Gopalakrishna made a significant impact on my life. While we worked together in several organizations, I was exposed to his great wisdom, understanding, and compassion. Knowing him helped me to become a better person.”

Sharad Amin, the former President of HGH, and an activist with Hindu Swayam Sewak Sangh Balagokulam, SEWA International, and VHPA-America said: “Very sad to find out about the passing away of Dr. Gopalakrishna. He was the VHP summer camp doctor for a long time. We traveled together one time to attend the VHPA governing council meeting in Indianapolis. He inspired so many of us, to have patience and a cool mind during any pressure situation. He was easy to work with and very knowledgeable”.

HOUSTON: Sarojini R. Badachhape was born as Sindhu Ramdas Navgale on June 3, 1936 in Bhusaval, Maharashtra,
India. She married Ramchandra B. Badachhape, Ph.D. at an early age. She had to discontinue her college education as the couple started their family with daughter Maya and son Abhay.

Soon they migrated to the United States. They were the pioneer Marathi Indian family in Houston and hosted all the new Marathi immigrants to make them comfortable in this country. Saroj and Ram welcomed many new Indian families by inviting them into their home for a meal and always made the people feel welcome. Saroj was a great cook and loved to cook for family and friends.

Along with Ram and a few friends, they initiated the formation of the Houston Maharashtra Mandal in 1976. Saroj was one of the first presidents of HMM. At another time, when no one wanted to take the responsibility, Saroj came forward to become president and saved the organization.

In 1993, Saroj supported Ram in proposing the 1995 Bruhan Maharashtra Mandal convention in Houston. Saroj was the successful owner of A to Z Travels with Ram. Both of them enjoyed traveling. She had many hobbies, including gardening, playing bridge, visiting casinos, and making pottery. Saroj shared her pottery skills with local children during their summer vacations.

For the last year and a half, Saroj and Ram have been staying at a Hospice Care Center due to health issues. Saroj
passed away on January 17, 2024. She was preceded in death by her son Abhaya (Ajay) R. Badachhape in 2021, along with three sisters.

A private cremation ceremony was held on Saturday, January 20. On June 8, a larger celebration of life will be held in Houston. Memorials can be made to Meenakshi Temple in Pearland or the general scholarship
fund at Rice University.

Saroj is survived by her husband of over 66 years Ram, her brother Dhananjay Navgale of Jalgaon, Maharashtra; sister Asha of Mumbai, daughter Dr. Maya B. Bledsoe and spouse Murff F. Bledsoe, of Austin, daughter-in-law Sutapa Sur of Sugar Land, grandchildren Dr. Andrew A. S. Badachhape, and spouse Rebecca C. Searle of Houston, Nathan Lonsdale Bledsoe and spouse Sarah of Houston, Grace B. Barrand spouse John of Logan, Utah and great grandson Holden Murff Barr.

HOUSTON: Sandra (Sandi) Louise Bhatia, 77, passed away on November 21, 2023 in Houston, Texas.  She was born in Cleveland, Ohio in 1946 to Richard and Dorothy Hass.  Sandi married Dr. Pritam S. Bhatia in 1965.

Sandi attended the University of Arkansas, where she received a master’s degree in social work. She worked as a social worker in several hospitals while living in Arkansas. Sandi was a devout catholic. She had many hobbies including art, crochet, cooking, traveling, and spending time with family and friends.

She is preceded in death by her husband Dr. Pritam S. Bhatia. She is survived by her four children: Dr. Devinder S. Bhatia and his wife Gina;  Heather Coleman and her husband Andrew;  Tej Bhatia-Herring and her husband Michael, and Ravi Bhatia. Additionally, she is survived by her six loving grandchildren Morgan Bhatia, Drake Bhatia, Mia Bhatia, Tamas Coleman, Cannon Coleman, and Truth Bhatia-Herring.

A funeral mass will be celebrated at 10 o’clock in the morning on Monday, December 4, 2023, at Holy Rosary Catholic Church, 3617 Milam Street in Houston with a reception to follow at the church.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Sandi’s memory may be directed to the Dominican Friars, South Dominican Province, P.O. Box 8129, New Orleans, LA 70182 (OPSouth.org/give).

CHICAGO: Vidya Wati Uppal was born on Aug 20, 1916, in the city of Sargodha in pre-partition India. She got married to our father Dr. Amir Chand Uppal in 1937 and together they raised their five children. The partition of India in 1947 forced them from their home after which they settled in Rohtak, India. They lived together for 67 years.

A devout Hindu and a follower of the teachings of Swami Dayanand, Vidya practiced her faith diligently throughout her life. She was a strict disciplinarian and instilled these dharmic values in her children and grandchildren. Upon the death of her husband in 2004, Mataji moved to the US in 2005 and stayed in Houston through 2016. In August 2017 she was moved to a nursing home Bria of Westmont (Chicago area).

Mataji is survived by her daughters, Santosh (late Jiwan Lal) Markan, Prem (late Surendra) Arya, and Nirmal (Harbans) Bajaj as well as sons Kul Bhushan (Suman) Uppal and Jug Mohan (Madhu) Uppal. She also leaves behind 11 grandchildren, 15 great-grandchildren as well as a large extended family. Mataji’s entire family is indebted to Bria of Westmont and its outstanding staff for taking excellent and loving care of her in the last six years of her life.

HOUSTON: We are deeply saddened to announce the death of Prashant Muzumdar, loving husband, father, and friend, who passed away on October 3, 2023 in a car accident. Born on February 11, 1971, Prashant’s 52 years were filled with laughter, wisdom, and a profound love for his family and friends. Prashant is survived by his devoted wife, Geeta Muzumdar, and their two inspiring children, Kabir and Sanjana Muzumdar. Prashant’s love and wisdom will continue to light their paths and support them through life’s journey.

A native of Mumbai, Maharashtra, India, Prashant graduated in 1996 from Pune with a Bachelor of Science in Engineering. His talent and dedication in his career led him to become a Registered Professional Engineer in Texas in 2009. His accomplishments included his contribution to improvements of Memorial Park & renovation and expansion of multiple facilities at Bush Intercontinental Airport.

Known for his kind heart, jovial nature, and gentle spirit, Prashant believed in living a responsible and balanced life, often sharing wisdom about leading a debt-free life, taking life one day at a time, and love your parents unconditionally. He was an avid reader with a deep appreciation for literature, his favorite books ranged from spiritual texts like the Bhagavad Geeta to inspiring works such as How To Live in 24 Hours. He always taught his family to understand the struggles of historical characters and how we can be inspired by them and when life gets tough for us, we look to these individuals to gain strength. Prashant’s compassionate character touched all those around him, leaving an enduring impact on his family, friends, and community. He will be deeply missed, but his spirit, wisdom, and love will forever live on in the hearts of all those he touched.

HOUSTON: With heavy hearts and profound sorrow, we announce the peaceful passing of a remarkable woman, Zohara Banu Langha, who bravely battled cancer with unwavering strength and grace. Surrounded by her devoted family, she transitioned to her eternal abode, leaving behind a legacy of love, forgiveness, and faith. Zohara Banu Langha departed this world on August 20, 2023, leaving a void that can never be filled.

A cherished mother, loving grandmother, and a pillar of strength, she demonstrated exceptional resilience throughout her journey. She found solace in her unshakable faith and her ability to forgive, showcasing the true essence of compassion and kindness. In her final moments, she recited the Kalima and praised the Almighty Allah, embracing His mercy and grace.

She was born on August 3, 1947, in Gujarat, India, and left an indelible mark on the lives she touched. Zohara Banu Langha’s legacy will continue through the Masjid E Zohara in Woodlands. This sacred place of worship stands as a perpetual testament to her devotion and her family’s commitment to preserving her memory. Additionally, her family established the Langha Foundation, dedicated to supporting educational endeavors, ensuring that her passion for education lives on. The Janaza Prayer for Zohara Banu Langha took place at Masjid Hamza on a solemn Monday afternoon, following the Namaz e Zohar with the attendance of a large gathering of friends and families.

Her final journey was a testament to the impact she had on countless lives. Her resting place is at the Forest Park Cemetery on Westheimer, where she lies in eternal peace. She is survived by her loving children, Dr. Yunus Langha, Shakil Langha, and Shahina Parveen, as well as her cherished grandchildren. She leaves behind a legacy of love, resilience, and faith that will forever inspire those who were fortunate enough to know her.

Let us remember Zohara Banu Langha as a beacon of love and forgiveness, a woman who embraced life’s challenges with courage and embraced every moment with grace. May her soul find eternal tranquility in the presence of the Almighty Allah, and may her legacy continue to guide and inspire generations to come.

NEW DELHI: The Suneja family deeply mourns the lossof a remarkable woman, as they announce the passing of their beloved matriarch, Mrs. Usha Rani Suneja, who peacefully departed for her heavenly abode on August
16, 2023. Born on November 20, 1934, she graced this world with her presence, filling it with kindness, compassion, and an abundance of love.

Mrs. Usha Rani Suneja, a beacon of grace and elegance, touched the lives of all those who had the privilege of knowing her. Her unwavering spirit, unconditional love, and noble demeanor made her a source of inspiration
for her family and friends alike.

She epitomized the essence of a selfless and caring soul, with kindness and compassion consistently extending her heart and hand to anyone in need. With a heart as vast as the ocean, she was a caring wife, loving mother, a cherished grandmother and great-grandmother and a dear friend to many. Her warm radiant smile and comforting presence were a constant source of solace for those around her. She possessed an innate ability to foster an atmosphere of unity and togetherness, strengthening the bonds of family and friendship.

Throughout her journey, Mrs. Suneja demonstrated an unshakeable faith and an enduring optimism that radiated hope to those who crossed her path. Her legacy of love and kindness will live on through the lives she
touched, reminding us all of the immeasurable impact a single life can have on the world.

As the Suneja Family reflects on the memories they shared with their beloved Mumma, they find solace in the knowledge that her spirit will forever dwell within their hearts. Though she may have departed from this physical realm, her legacy of love, compassion, and generosity will continue to guide and inspire generations to come.

Cremation ceremony was held on Monday, August 21 at 10:30 AM at the Punjabi Bagh Crematorium in New Delhi. A memorial service to honor and celebrate her life was held on Tuesday, August 22, from 3-4 PM at the Arya Samaj
Mandir in Kirti Nagar, New Delhi. In Houston, a Havan followed by Prayer Service will be held on Saturday, August 26, 10:30 AM -12:30 PM at the Arya Samaj Mandir, 14375 Schiller Road, Houston, TX 77082. Mrs. Usha Rani Suneja will be deeply missed but fondly remembered as a woman of remarkable character, a wellspring of love, and a source of boundless warmth. May her soul find eternal peace and may her memory forever shine brightly in our hearts.

She is survived by her sons Dr. Pradeep Suneja (wife Amita) of New Delhi and Dr. Randeep Suneja (wife Seema) of Katy, Texas, six grandchildren, and 6 great-grandchildren.

By Jawahar Malhotra

HOUSTON: Even though the last few years had been tough on her as her escalating health issues took more of her energy, it did not fade the spring in her steps as she walked across the living room, determined not to use the walker to steady her. Much as she realized the frailties she had to deal with, Veena Kumari Kakkar didn’t want to burden others, especially not her only child, daughter Annu Khanna.

On Sunday, August 7, 2023, in the arms of her loving daughter, and in her own bedroom, this strong fighter breathed her last, a day after she returned from a week at the hospital. Her last words for the inconsolable Annu were telling her not to cry, but “to be strong”.

Born in Multan, pre-Partitioned India on January 16, 1937 to Maapyari and Jaswant Rai, Veena was the most loved child in the family of seven siblings and took responsibility of each brother and sister. She was seven years old when the family moved to Delhi, and after high school she went to Lucknow to complete her medical diploma and worked as a GYN nurse.

She lived in the Pahargunj district of Old Delhi, where Annu was born and raised her as a single mother. At the age of 50, she took voluntary retirement from the Municipal Health Department, completed all the US immigration process by herself and with Annu, then 17, landed in Houston on April 16, 1987, where she was sponsored by her sister Janak Tiwari. After repeated attempts, she finally found a job at Walgreens where she worked for 12 years till she retired.

During these years she taught Annu the value of perseverance and sacrifice, and the two lived together her entire life, for 53 years. Veena was a staunch Hindu and often participated at the Hindu Worship Society, Radha Krishna Temple and Sri Sita Ram Foundation events.

Even as her health started to fail her, she was determined to visit her family in India, most recently in 2022, against the advice of her cardiologist. Her motto in life was to be pragmatic and just do what you set your mind to.

Veena was a kindred spirit who left her mark on others through her caring and generosity. In addition to Annu, she leaves behind sisters Janak Tewari (husband T.D. Tiwari) of Houston and Kanchan Anand (of Noida, India) and brother Surinder Anand. She is also survived by her nephew Ashu Tewari and his kids, Shaan and Isabela, as well as her nieces, nephews and their families in Australia, and siblings and their families in India.

Her funeral and cremation was held on Wednesday, August 9 at 10 am at the Winford Funeral Home at 8514 Tybor Dr., Houston, TX 77074.

HOUSTON: Lalita Devi Das, a remarkable woman whose journey began on April 20, 1937, in Gujaranwala, India, has recently celebrated her 86th birthday. With deep sadness, we share that she peacefully passed away in the loving presence of her family at her home on Saturday, July 8, 2023. Lalita, one of five children, was born to Prakashwati and Tek Chand Khosla, respected rice mill owners from Saharanpur, India.

Lalita’s legacy lives on through her cherished memories. She is survived by her devoted husband, Lachhman, and her two beloved sons, Micky and Tony, along with their loving wives, Andrea and Bernice. Her passing is mourned by her brother, Ram, her sister, Narinder, and her six adoring grandchildren, Thomas, Nicholas, Andrew, Gabrielle, Amy, and Olivia. Recently, Lalita had also embraced the joy of becoming a great grandmother to baby Sam.

In the early years of her life, Lalita’s path crossed with that of a diligent college scholar named Lachhman, thanks to the introduction by her uncle, Harparshad, a well-known figure in the Electrical Board in India. Following the customs of the time, Lalita and Lachhman entered into an arranged marriage on October 10, 1960, without having seen each other before the ceremony. They embarked on a journey together, residing in Ludhiana, Jagraon, and finally settling in Patiala, where Lachhman held various positions with the Electrical Board. During this time, their first child, Micky, was born in India.

Yearning for opportunities and a brighter future for their family, Lachhman made the courageous decision to venture to the United States in August 1964 to pursue higher studies. In his absence, their second son, Tony, was born in New Delhi. Lalita and their children joined Lachhman in December 1965, commencing their immigrant Indian American dream. A playful anecdote that brought smiles to their faces for years occurred when Lalita arrived at the airport in San Francisco, and the immigration personnel asked Lachhman if he was Mr. Devi since her documents referred to her as Mrs. Devi—an inside joke that they cherished.

While adjusting to life in the United States, Lalita initially found it challenging to adapt to what she perceived as manual labor, such as cooking and cleaning, as she had not been accustomed to it in India. However, after acclimating to her new surroundings, Lalita decided to take on night shifts as a Licensed Vocational Nurse (LVN).A position which allowed her the flexibility to care for her young children and care for her busy husband whose career was blossoming.

The family later relocated to New York in June 1968, where they resided until 1975 when they made Houston, Texas, their new home. In February 1976, Lalita and Lachhman embarked on an entrepreneurial adventure and opened their own business—a Travel Agency named Worldwide Travels in Seabrook. While Lachhman continued his day job, they dedicated themselves to running the travel agency, a labor of love that lasted until 1999. After retiring, Lalita delighted in traveling and hosting “kitty parties” in Clear Lake with her friends. Her culinary skills, especially her mouthwatering gobi pronto, will be dearly missed by her family and friends.

Lalita Devi Das led a life filled with love, resilience, and unwavering determination. Her indomitable spirit, warm presence, and contagious laughter will forever be treasured. As we bid her farewell, let us remember the legacy of strength and grace she leaves behind.

By Jawahar Malhotra & Jenisteen Davier

HOUSTON: To say that he knew the many facets of the travel business was an understatement. When all else failed, or you needed a last minute itinerary to get your visa or passport, you knew Homi could get it to you, no questions asked. And he could hold that reservation for you miraculously for days, without fussing at the constant changes.

Homi Davier, who was also known as Homi Davierwala, passed away unexpectedly of a heart attack in his Sugar Land home, on Sunday, May 7 at 6 pm. He was 74, just a week shy of his 75^th birthday.

Homi Davier was born on May 14, 1948 to Hilla and Manchershaw Davierwala in Bombay, India. Homi met Nergish Kurva at the age of 15 when they both attended the same after-school tuitions class. Their romance blossomed and they were married in 1974.

In his youth, Homi pursued his passion for aviation by training as a pilot and this served as the catalyst to beginning his career in travel. When he received an offer to work with a new division of Gulf Airlines, the couple moved to Oman, Muscat where they welcomed their only child, daughter Jenisteen in 1978.

In 1980 the family relocated to Houston, as Homi transitioned from working with an airline to joining a local travel agency, Everest Travel, run by friends from his days in Muscat, Krishnan and Lakshmann. A few years later he started his own travel agency, Capricorn Travel  & Tours, named after his daughter’s birth sign. His clients became lifelong friends because he didn’t just book tickets, he arranged adventures, accompanied them on expeditions and his joy for travel imbued a sense of delight in each person’s trip.

In 1991, after Latavia gained its independence from the Soviet Union, Homi led a group of American investors to take on a managing share of the nation’s planned new airline, Baltic International Airlines, and turn the country into a hub for travel in Eastern Europe. The venture ended a couple of years later and the airline eventually was sold to SAS.

Shortly after moving to Houston Homi and his family joined the Zoroastrian Association of Houston which became a defining moment and led to his passion for serving and helping grow the young and newly formed community. During his years in ZAH he served on multiple committees and was the co-founder for the World Zoroastrian Chamber of Commerce.

He co-chaired the 7th World Zoroastrian Congress in 2000 which resulted in his becoming a co-founder of the Congress Legacy Project which grants annual scholarships to local youth members. His parting gift to the community he loved so dearly  was the 2023 Zoroastrian Directory which he was able to gather more than $25,000 in advertisements that benefit the center. He took immense pride in being a part of ZAH and was always thinking, talking and dreaming of more ideas on how to build an even stronger community.

Despite several health issues that sidelined him for awhile, Homi was an optimist and towards the later part of his career, he joined New York Life as a financial adviser though he still also offered travel services through his company Xpert Tours.

During this time he revived an old passion of his, art and painting. Homi came from a family of artists and was excited to have this be a part of his life again. He was a contemporary artist that created vibrant oils with joyful bursts of coloring. He participated in and won awards at several exhibitions across Ft. Bend county.

In addition to his wife Nergish and daughter Jenisteen, he is survived by his sister-in-law Pervin and her husband Maneck who presided as a priest at his funeral, and sisters in Mumbai, Kashmira and Binaifer.

HOUSTON: Dr. Jagdish Chandra Sharma, devoted husband, loving father and grandfather and respected physician began his earthly journey November 30, 1931 in Jodhpur, Rajasthan in Northwest India. He is the son of Kalyan Das Sharma and Bhuri Bai Sharma and grew up with four brothers and one sister.

His adventurous spirit and quest for knowledge led him to pursue a love for the outdoors and a fervor for academic excellence. After attending His Majesty of Jodhpur’s Durbar Intermediate School, he was the first in his family to pursue a career in medicine. He attended SMS Medical College in Jaipur where he obtained his MBBS in 1956.

He completed his Internal Medicine boards for his medical doctorate and fellowship at the prestigious King George Medical College in Lucknow in 1962. It was here that he wrote his well-received thesis on epidemic encephalitis.

In 1959, he married the lovely Kamla Nath from Varanasi and they began a beautiful life together in Ajmer, Rajasthan where he worked as an internist with the Western Railways.

Desiring to pursue further training for medical specialization, he traveled to Pittsburgh in 1964 to complete his Internal Medicine residency at St. Francis Hospital.

At Boston University and the Boston VA Hospital, Dr. Sharma completed his residency in Neurology from 1965-1969. He was then armed and ready to fulfill an academic career at a medical university upon returning to India.
Destiny ordained that he return to practice medicine and raise his young family in the United States. At that time, this decision was not an easy one, being fraught with many challenges and unknowns for a new immigrant family.  The family settled in Houston in 1971 where a life of adventure and career highlights began.

Dr. Sharma worked as a neurologist at Methodist Hospital and Baylor College of Medicine for a short while before traveling to the University of North Carolina for further specialization through a fellowship in EEG.

Dr. Sharma begin his very successful private practice in 1975 where he was affiliated with Houston Northwest Medical Center.

A consummate diagnostician, his primary focus was the welfare of his cherished patients and championing the integrity of the doctor-patient relationship.

Seeking to create broad positive change in medicine, he was the founding member and first  president of the Indian Doctors’ Association of Houston in 1980- an organization that flourishes to this day. He also served as a proud delegate to the Texas Medical Association for several years.

He held leadership roles in Harris County Medical Society and served as Chief of Staff of Houston Northwest Medical Center.

In addition, he was an active member of AAPI (American Association of Physicians from India) and TIPS (Texas Indo-American Physicians Society) where he was able to facilitate positive changes in healthcare policy.
Throughout his medical career, Dr. Sharma stood firm on the value of hard work, integrity, and service to humanity.

Personally, he emphasized the importance of meaningful spiritual connection and the love and strength of family. He was a pillar in the Houston community lending his service and knowledge to many worthy causes. His wit, charm and intelligence endeared him to all whom he encountered.

From his early childhood days, Dr. Sharma, reveled in exploring the outdoors, be it mountaineering in the Himalayas or trekking the sandy dunes of his desert state of Rajasthan. He also adored traveling, reading and researching the epochs of Indian history, fine dining and cooking.

He is adored by his three children, Taruna, Aneet and Sumeet, daughters-in-law Swati and Archna, and the true treasures of his life, his grandchildren, Deven and his wife Kya, Neel, Ryan, Sheil, Jaya, Brij, Rohan and Arjun.  He is also survived by his older brother Tulsi Ram Sharma and numerous family members and friends throughout the world.

HOUSTON: Rupla Oberoi was born in Lahore India, pre Pakistan. She was one of four sisters that were all raised to be strong and dynamic in an era where women did not have much of a voice. She met her future husband at a young age, marrying him at the age of 20 and eloped to the UK where they began their married life. She positioned herself as an elementary schoolteacher and became a trailblazer when she was eventually appointed a magistrate..as she was one of the first women of color to be granted such a title.
She became a mother to two children, a son, Ricki, and a daughter, Gita. In 1982, the family moved to the US. Although the first restaurant they opened here, called Blazing Saddles, was more of an American diner, it paved the way for their legacy of Indian restaurant ownership they became so widely known for. Rupla, along with her husband Mahesh, constituted the proverbial dynamic duo team. Their devotion to one another was legendary, as was their style of working side by side in the businesses. Their first Indian restaurant was Natraj, located in what is now Highland Village. Their flagship restaurant, Shiva Indian Restaurant, opened next and graced Times Blvd in the popular Rice Village area. Here, they catered to a large majority of medical professionals and gained traction as both an in house dining as well as a catering restaurant concept. Rupla and Mahesh went on to establish multiple Indian restaurants in Houston and surrounding areas..Shivani, Monsoon, Clay Oven in Bryan and Mantra in Katy.
Rupla was instrumental in developing client relationships and was known for her warmth and generosity. Her fondness for people and her desire to do every job to the client’s utmost satisfaction earned her a place in everyone’s heart. Her empathetic nature allowed her to weep with people as if their misfortune was her own and also to laugh and rejoice with them as if their good fortune was hers.
She loved to dress colorfully, with opulent jewelry, and was ready to dance to any kind of music with admirable confidence.. she was truly the life of the party. She was an avid devotee of Mata and relished hosting and attending Chowkis ( 4 hr long prayer sessions), soulfully singing her favorite bhajans. Those who knew her always remarked upon her kindness, which , literally, knew no bounds..she would give money, toys, food, and advice, all with love and no expectations in return. She gave liberally to many charities over the years, including St. Jude’s Hospital, and received multiple commemorations from them. Though she was a supreme “people person”, her family will always remember her for the infinite love she showered upon her children and grandchildren.
No grandchild had a better ally or partner in crime than Rupla Oberoi. She was a shining star that illuminated the lives of so many lucky enough to have known her…and though her absence leaves trails of tears in its wake, her legacy of love, devotion, beauty, strength, and confidence will endure in our hearts forever.

HOUSTON: On December 25 2022, our family lost our historian, our guardian, our mentor, our cheerleader… our Birju Seth.  He left around  4.30 in the morning while his son was giving massage to his legs and his bahurani  watching him.  We hold such bittersweet emotions at his passing, knowing that he left this world feeling fulfilled and without great pain, but feeling immense loss for all the richness he brought to our lives.

Dadaji, formally known as Brijgopal Pallod, was born in Zaheerabad in 1938. Born into a large joint family, Dadaji managed to make an impression not only on every member of the Pallod Family, but on every single person he met. He greeted everyone from bouncing babies to dignitaries with the same respect-filled “Jai Shri Krishna”, and his sharp wit, big smile, and general warmth are the hallmarks of his interactions with all of us. Though Dadaji didn’t get formal education past 10th grade, he was on a constant quest to learn about the world, and read newspapers in 3 languages every day. That he could say puns that left us all with laughs that made our bellies hurt in so many different languages was a testament to his wit. As he would say himself, he was 84 years YOUNG.

While Dadaji was born before World War II into our very traditional family, his ability to connect with everyone, young and old, gave him a progressive worldview that allowed him to champion all of his grandkids. Radhika remembers him making sure to correct a Panditji who discriminated in his blessings by gender, and we all know how proud he was of all of us for pursuing an education that he couldn’t. We’ll always remember the trip he made to celebrate Kavita’s Doctoral graduation fondly, and how he regaled everyone he met with “Bharat ka rehne wala hoon, Bharat ki baath sunatha hoon”. That his last trips abroad were to celebrate Kavita and Radhika’s achievements says a lot about the love and pride Dadaji had in all his grandkids, and how loved his granddaughters in particular felt.

We saw Dadaji fill every role he played with such grace. He was a steadfast and loyal husband, especially when Bai was sick. He was a devoted brother, and serving as Raju Dadaji’s eyes when he could. He was a firm father and also one who told everyone that his kids were the pearls and diamonds of his life. We knew him best as our dadaji, and our hearts ache at the thought of not having his warm hands massage ours and assure us of our fortunes, his classic chadi step to celebrate all of our milestones, and his melodious voice to teach us about who we are and where we come from.

In his last “innings” of life, Dadaji seemed to smile even more as he infected us with his jovial nature. One of his favorite movies was “102 not out”, and he embodied the idea of enjoying life to the fullest. Exactly a year before his passing, Dadaji had his swarna sidhi aarohan ceremony, where he symbolically climbed a golden ladder to heaven after seeing his great grandchild, Veer.  While we miss him immensely, there’s a comfort in knowing that Dadaji himself would say that he experienced everything he wanted to, and left the word reassuring his beloved son Kamal (who was massaging his feet at the time)  that he was alright, his last words being “aaram se, main theek hoon.” ( by grand daughters  Kavita , Namita and Radhika)

Shraddhanjali (April 03, 1950 – Dec 20,2022)

By Ranjana Vadhva Bedi

If a man is like a river

Carving banks, shaping mankind around him,

Or a gentle stream

Inviting you to listen to its music,

He surely ends in the sea

Even amidst the sorrow and loss,

He is surrounded by an ocean of endless love.

So is Acharya Praveen Gulati ji, surrounded by an ocean of endless love by all those whose lives he touched.  One of the principal founding members of the Arya Samaj Greater Houston (ASGH), Praveen ji ‘s atma left his earthly body on 20^th December 2022. At the memorial, funeral and cremation rites on December 22^nd, attended by over one hundred community members, eulogies by his children and extended family were a remarkable testimonial to a dynamic, selfless man driven to serve Arya Samaj. As a dedicated husband to Rita Ji, and father to Sanjay and Eesha, his love of family was paramount, leading his family, also, into the service of Arya Samaj. Indeed, the Arya Samaj community, and especially the students, became his extended family in his life-long service as Acharya and teacher. An Acharya is a person who teaches the sciences of the Vedas and whose “aacharan”, behavior, is model. He shows a road map for pupils to emulate. Praveen ji modeled righteous living while spreading the word of the Vedas. Management Committee member, Bhushan Verma ji aptly remarked “Acharya Praveen ji was a walking Arya Samaj, who lived and propounded Vaidic values to the Indian diaspora in Houston.”

Arya Samaj is a social reform movement (connecting world-wide humanity to the Vedas, the root of sanatan dharma) which teaches monotheism whilst advocating against gender and caste-based discrimination. Acharya Praveen Ji championed these values forcefully and fearlessly to all those he encountered. Praveen ji was encouraged by his father, Pita ji Desraj Gulati, to join Pita ji Ram Chand Mahajan in performing Vaidic Havans at peoples home. The duo performed these duties pro bono, and forwarded “dakshina”, monies gifted to them in appreciation of their services, to the Arya Samaj. As a young engineer with a full-time job and family, Praveen ji’s devotion to the Vaidic cause was so passionate that he created time and boundless energy in spreading the knowledge of the principles of Arya Samaj wherever he found an audience. His personal charm and gentle demeanor would make the most skeptical intellectual open up to his discourse, the listener invariably making a personal connection with him.

Starting in 1991, he served as the first Acharya of the ASGH. In his duty as an Acharya of such a powerful reform movement, he equaled any formally trained priest of the Arya Samaj, although he was self-taught. It was an astonishing accomplishment, more so because he influenced a whole generation of children, now young professionals. This large group of young women and men became vegetarians, incorporating the Vaidic values into their lives. Foremost in this group are his own 2 children, now shining stars in their own lives. As a young family they travelled to numerous school tennis tournaments, talking and listening to their father about God, life, truth, Vaidic principles and perhaps some jokes as well. His family was witness to his many hours of reading and preparation before any lecture or teaching session. He was a life-long student and an even better teacher/Acharya. His young protégés remember him as personally attentive, never too busy to answer questions, and always interested in their welfare.

Pita ji Mahajan’s vision of a larger and independently situated Arya Samaj was then facilitated by philanthropist Sunil Mehta ji, who offered the Arya Samaj exclusive use of buildings and grounds on his business premises. With a physical home, Praveen ji, worked harder than before on his Sunday pravachans doing justice to his title as an Acharya of Arya Samaj Greater Houston. The responsibility of realizing Ram Chand Mahajan ji’s vision of a larger samaj was then charged to a group consisting of Shekhar Agrawal, Muneesh Gulati, Praveen Gulati, Brij Kathuria, Dev Mahajan, and Sunil Mehta. In 1997, the new building of the ASGH on Schiller Road was completed and had a grand opening. Thus, Arya Samaj Greater Houston, under the judicious guidance of the principal founders, has continued to grow, now with a Montessori & Elementary school (DAVMES), a Dayanand Arya Vaidic Sanskriti School (DAVSS), a Vaidic Sanskriti School-Global (VSS), Arya Yuvak Mandal (AYM), a weekly Sunday satsang and several weekly adult classes (in Sanskrit, Yoga, Ramayana, Geeta, the Vedas).

(For a full history of the growth of Arya Samaj Greater Houston please visit https://aryasamajhouston.org/about-us/history-and-growth.)

After his earlier years as a personal representative of the Arya Samaj while working to support a family, Acharya Gulati Ji transitioned into a full time Acharya for DAV Sanskriti School in the early 2000s. His scholarly pursuits were obvious in the large collection of books he donated to initiate the library at ASGH. In the following years, he spent considerable time and resources in teaching and creating a following of young people to lead a life based on Vaidic principles. In spite of health challenges that were to follow, Praveen ji’s energy and enthusiasm to teach his students were undiminished.

Although his work required study and thought, his friends and students remember him not as a serious man, but as a jocular man who loved the good things in his life. He was a gardener, loved good quality food and never turned down a cup of tea. Generous by nature, often resulting in an excess of food when he was around, he did not sweat over the small stuff in life. Friends had to be fed and entertained. From young children to students to learned scholars, they were all his friends.  Sanjay Jain ji commented “We were blessed to have the guidance of Acharya Praveen ji, he taught our children the true meaning of ‘Idan na mama’, it’s not mine, it’s for all.” Management Committee members Anil and Anjali Gupta noted “He touched many lives and made a difference in the world. We and our kids are fortunate to have known him.”

Ranjan Kapoor and Rajendra Pandya, close family friends, remarked that Praveen ji was a brother, a father, a spiritual guide, that rarest of persons who gave of himself generously and loved all who met him. They revered him as their Guru. Yet another family friend, Kusum Vyas, observed “He touched the lives of so many people as he made the time to show up for everyone who reached out, with his caring, trustworthy and sound counsel. He simply wanted to reinforce Vaidic Dharma in peoples’ lives and that he surely did”.

Students, remarked on the strong impact “uncle” had on them as an Acharya. They reflected on how as young students in the Arya Samaj DAV Sanskriti school, he instilled Vaidic values in them, which have shaped their life-long behavior:

• Neeraj Salhotra – Uncle taught me that while doing the right thing is hard, it is always the correct decision because in the end our values should guide us.
• Bobby Kathuria – One day when I was thirteen, I met Gulati uncle at a private Havan ceremony he was leading. The ceremony followed with a sermon where he talked about the soul and reincarnation as described in the Vedas and Ramayan. I remember how deep his conviction was on the subject and it moved me.  It was the first time I ever pondered the soul of animals.  He encouraged the group to consider becoming vegetarian and shortly after I decided to give it a try. Twenty-five years later I am still a vegetarian.
• Sanjay Chaudary – Through Uncle’s influence, I have grown to have an unshakeable and strong pride to be Hindu and practice sanatan dharma. This pride has also reinforced in my life: fearlessness, trust in God, and to see our scriptures in all walks of life.
• Neha Srivastava – “Krinvanto Vishwam Arya” – Make the world noble. Acharya ji encouraged me and my peers to embark on a journey of commitment to service for the betterment of the world around us.
• Nalin Verma – Gulati uncle taught me all about righteousness when I was a little boy. He taught me that our heart always understands if what we are doing is right or wrong and we should always follow that feeling.

Acharaya ji’s Samaj sewa (service) was made possible by the sacrifice and unwavering support of his selfless wife Rita ji, who supported his efforts to spread the message of Arya Samaj with her nurturing care. As a life partner, she sustained the family and the community he served.

As community members mourn the loss of a stalwart of Arya Samaj Greater Houston, Dev Mahajan ji, founding member, recalled “Acharya Praveen ji was a hard worker, a perfectionist and a great orator. He would spend hours in research to prepare his pravachan. He was a great lover of music, who spent innumerable hours in perfecting the recording of two Bhajan CD’s which he and his brother Muneesh ji gifted to Arya Samaj”. Sushma Mahajan ji recollected “I learnt a lot from Acharya Praveen Ji’s pravachans. He clarified many doubts l had about our sanatan dharma’s teachings”. Bhushan ji in his Shraddhanjali said “May his divangat atma achieve peace and sadgati”. Sanjay Jain, Coordinator of the Managing committee, expressed a similar sentiment “May his departed soul achieve peace and continue its journey to mukti”.

Arya Samaj Greater Houston honors the memory of a true soldier, who followed in the footsteps of Maharishi Swami Dayanand, the founder of Arya Samaj.  ASGH will hold a Celebration of the life of Acharya Praveen ji on January 22^nd, 2023 during the satsang from 9:45am – 12:00pm. The weekly satsang is held every Sunday at 14375 Schiller Rd, Houston, TX 77082. Anyone wishing to attend is welcome.